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Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Learning To Wait When You Want It Now

Light Over Darkness

Patience Over Instant Gratification


Born out of generation that knows the value of hard work and persistence a microwave generation has been created. Somehow along the way our culture has shifted into thinking it is better to give than to earn. The advent of new technology has been feeding the beast of instant gratification.

The millennial generation — born during the 1980s and 1990s — grew up on technology and feels the pull of instant gratification more intensely than older generations. Millennials find it more difficult than previous generations to delay the gratification of even important aspects of their lives. Excerpt from Bucknell University, Instant Gratification & Its Dark Side

Questions to Ask Yourself In The Midst of Being Impatient

Are you prepared for what you are asking for? 

Is it in your best interest?

Is the time right?

Will it kill you to wait?

Power In The Process

It is time we realize there is power in the process of life. Often people are given too much too soon.  Learn to trust the process. When you try to rush things that need time to grow you only shortchange yourself. Instead of feeding the artificial need of instant gratification, learn the virtue of patience.

3 P’s of Being Patient

Be Positive – Keep a positive attitude while you wait
Be Present – There is always a lesson right where you are.
Be Persistent – Just because it’s not happening in an instant doesn’t mean it won’t happen.

Remember, the greatest oaks where once little acorns. We all have a starting point and must endure to reach our fullest potential.  Fast and easy doesn’t always equate to better.

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